Tag: life

  • Why Social Media Makes Us Crazy

    Society will always get more of what it glamorizes and less of what it stigmatizes. The law of incentives remains undefeated. Every society has a shame code – certain practices it publicly shames. You can tell a lot about the health of a society by looking at what it shames versus what it celebrates. Shame…

  • Red Pill Proverbs: Hard Edged Advice for Life

    Fake friends are like shadows. They stay close to us while we’re in the sunlight, only to leave us immediately as we step into the darkness. — Understand that not everything is meant to be understood. Live, let go, and don’t worry about what you can’t change. — You can apologize over and over but…

  • Living a Red Pill Life in a Blue Pill World

    Living a Red Pill Life in a Blue Pill World

    The red pill/blue pill metaphor has gotten mangled to the point that it’s almost useless. I never saw the Matrix movies, but when I first encountered the red pill/blue pill categories, I thought they were fairly helpful interpretive lenses for navigating certain aspects of life in the modern world. I thought the red pill/blue pill…